It’s been a crazy summer.

In a really positive way 🙂

I’ve started my dream job at a travel agency and absolutely love it. It’s been awhile since I could honestly say I love what I do. I owned my own successful business and I really loved that until my world came crashing down. But I’m a firm believer that life happens and puts you on track to where you really belong.

The amount of travel opportunities that have presented themselves to me in the last few months have been incredible. I’ll be doing a 1 Night cruise from Seattle to Vancouver on the NCL Pearl in September, Rocky Mountaineer familiarization tour in October, along with another trip to Mexico to stay at the Hyatt Ziva in Puerto Vallarta in December. That’s just the FAM trips lol. Learning events and cruise ship tours have also kept me busy. This company really has a work hard, play hard mentality, and I love that. They do so much for their employees and I’m grateful that I was chosen to be part of it.

Not bad for turning my life around in a year and a half I’d say.

I’m definitely going to be blogging more, lots of reviews on hotels, trips, etc to come I promise!

One thing I’ve learned this past year since my separation is the need to keep myself going. If I haven’t had the support from my family and friends I probably would have gone insane by now.

When going through hard times, keep yourself busy.

In lots of ways this has been a time of reflection on myself. How can I become a better person? So instead of spending my days in bed, I walked and progressed into running, also challenging myself to the Grouse Grind as many times as I can this season, which has built up my self confidence because I’ve lost weight. I got myself a part-time job, started making new friends. I went to consumer shows on the weekends when I wasn’t working, like the Adventure Travel and Sports Show, women’s shows, etc, all in the effort to keep myself out of depression. Day trips hiking to Whistler and of course booking my vacation.

In lots of ways since this separation, I’m figuring out what makes me happy as my own person. Not trying to constantly try to make someone else happy, do what I want to do for me, no one else. I was never allowed to be selfish. Growing up in the religion I did, really stopped that kind of thinking. Getting married really way too early, I was a wife and had to do what my husband wanted. I was not allowed to be independent. So now I can focus on these things.

Since booking my trip to Bali and Thailand, it really has helped me look forward to something when I really didn’t have anything to look forward to. I’m all alone in many ways, and that’s scary to me. Not knowing what my future looks like, if I’ll ever meet anyone again, creates a bit of anxiety. This trip, concentrating on becoming a better, healthier person has really helped me in my darkest times. My life really has changed. I’m hoping for the good.

I know I would have never been able to travel like I will be when I was married. In many ways my adventure started the day I left my home with him, when he left me all alone, a broken person. I’m glad I had the courage to leave.

In the next few months I look at all the positive things happening, my trip to Bali and Thailand, going to be moving to Whistler and hopefully still stay on the path of losing weight and living a healthy lifestyle. I’ll constantly keep myself busy cause that all I know how to do now. It’s helped me heal and find my true self.

To all the women out there struggling, keep your head held high, you can do this. You can get through whatever it is you are going through, just keep moving 🙂

With just a week to go until I leave, I’ve begun packing!

I am bringing a 26″ lightweight Heys suitcase and a Dakine Heli Pro 2 as my carry-on.

Thinking about what I needed for this trip, I thought I would create a post about some of the things I am packing which sometimes get forgotten by others.

Camera gear/technology – So I’m planning to bring a few pieces to document my journey. I will be bringing along my GoPro Hero 4 Silver with an underwater housing, my Canon 6D and a few memory cards. I am also bringing my iPhone 6 to take quick pictures to post to Instagram and Facebook once I get back to my hotel each night. I will be turning my cellular service and my data off, but the nice thing with an iPhone is that you can still use most functions just connected to wifi (iMessage, FaceTime, posting photos, etc). I will also be taking my Samsung tablet, just in case I decide my iPhone is too small to do browsing at night, or to upload some of my GoPro videos and photos.

Snorkelling gear – One thing I read several times is that it’s recommended to bring your own gear if you can. I heard that renting gear can be expensive and of course you aren’t 100% sure if they really sanitized the snorkel completely. So I decided not to take the chance and just bring my own. I found a set at Costco this summer for $29.99, so very reasonable and it includes the mask, snorkel and fins.

Travel documents – I have hard copies of everything! Hotel confirmations, flight details, copy of my passport, travel insurance documents, tour itineraries, credit card company/bank phone numbers, etc. These documents will go into the hotel safe wherever I am in case my details on me gets stolen or lost.

Other items – Some of the other items I am taking are a small emergency kit, Tylenol, Gravol, Pepto Bismol, sunscreen (I also bought a travel size to keep in my purse for re-applications on the go), hand sanitizer, wet wipes, Clorox wipes (to wipe down hotel and airplane surfaces), Downy wrinkle release spray (amazing for travelling!), insect repellant, mini flashlight, and a few other little things here and there. I also purchased some Ener-C, little packets of powder that contain vitamins and minerals that help with immune system health and replenish electrolytes.

Other than that of course I packed some great outfits and who can forget the most important item of all on a trip like this… My swimsuit! 😉

I love journaling my trips.

It’s something I can always look back on, also write in the moment when my tablet and/or computer isn’t in reach. There is also something about writing on paper that I love. When you pen words to paper, sometimes you remember more than just what was happening at that moment, it brings you back to the smells, the views, the moment your were experiencing that very time you were writing. I tend to blog after I return from my trips, so my journals are also my reference.

So I went in search for a journal for my Bali/Thailand trip and found a beautiful one at HomeSense for $6.99! It’s the perfect size and honestly I can’t wait to start using it.

I also found a globe at HomeSense as well, it had a few marks on it (which was ok because of what I had planned for it), so I got it at a fantastic deal. I saw an awesome idea of using a globe and writing all over it with all the places you’ve traveled. Over the years, you fill your globe with all your travel experiences. It’s a great keepsake project that I absolutely love. Years from now, I hope to look my globe and all the places I’ve traveled and really appreciate that there is more happiness in memories than things 🙂

My name is Ariane and I’m 29 years old.

I’m currently going through a very difficult time in my life, I’m going though a separation and divorce.

Through this time you really do evaluate everything in your life, you figure out your priorities and what matters to you. Not only that, you need to try to find what makes you happy all over again, to rediscover yourself. Through this I found I had a want to travel, to travel and discover the world.

Before this I was content with my life, being a wife, keeping a house, working. Since that life came crashing down and feeling like the rug was ripped from underneath me, I realized I had not been selfish.  I hadn’t done what I really wanted to do with my life. Now I have that chance, the chance to experience life on my terms.